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“I mainly get approached by Spanish guys,” she admits, adding that she thinks Swiss men must be too arrogant or too scared to speak to women.But as Swiss Marc* reveals, “we behave the way we do because of the numerous rejections we have received from Swiss women.” Tijmens’ top tip?It is not a question of being stingy, however; it is about equality.“I advise men to pay on a first date,” says ‘flirt coach’ Thomas Peter, who runs how-to courses in flirting in Zurich or by telephone or email.Swiss people may not be keen on making an effort when they know you are likely to move on in the near future, explains Tijmens.She says: “Labelling yourself as an expat when you want to date locals is not always helpful.When you're first dating, it's like dating someone who lives with their parents but instead of the parents setting the rules of when you can go out with the daughter, it's the fucking kid who dictates the terms and if she cancels on you because the kid is sick or she can't get a sitter or something, there is not a damn thing you can do or say about it because "How care you!? Like Iam Aman said, you will always have the ex in the picture. It would be different if I had children from a previous relationship.
Trust me I have seen first hand, and it breaks families.I had a conversation with a friend last week about this subject and he told me I was too picky.He even said that he would marry a waitress; I told him I wouldn't and he looked at me as if I was crazy.“If love doesn’t happen instantly, we are disappointed and are out of there,” the dating expert says, emphasizing that investing time pays dividends.She may be right: Swiss government figures in 2015 revealed that 35 percent of marriages were between a Swiss and a foreigner.
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But this ‘no effort’ mentality is a mistake when it comes to dating the Swiss.